IT'S NOT EASY BEING A SOUTHERN BELLE-EVEN AFTER YEARS OF PRACTICE!













Wednesday, October 8, 2008

MRS. HELEN

This picture-SO captures Helen! Today is friend Helen's birthday. I am certain this will be a birthday very different from any other that she has ever celebrated. Helen's hubby, Dale, has ALS. He has been on a respirator since January. The respirator requires constant vigil and care. Dale only has limited movement of his mouth and movement of his eyebrows and eyes. Helen's life has turned into a constant motion of care for all of Dale's needs. I am watching and learning a great life lesson from my sweet friend. She is serving without complaint or protest. She insists-almost to a fault-in being in control of Dale's care. It has been a wonder to behold her tender ministrations to her life long mate.

Helen is the consummate "People Person". She has legions of friends and knows countless people. She likes us all and we all feel her acceptance. This leads to scores of friends who love her dearly. I have coordinated the meals for the Boersma family since Dale was put on the respirator. I have NEVER had any problem getting volunteers. People are eager to help in any way that they can. We all love Helen & Dale.

Helen, I wish you a blessed birthday. I hope the fact that we all love you and are praying for you all is a source of comfort and peace for you. My birthday prayer for you today is for Peace & Joy and maybe a good laugh at some point in the day. Know we love you, Friend-
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

4 comments:

adrian seney said...

Happy Birthday Mrs. Helen!! Aunt Lora, you are a sweet friend!

Bethany said...

Glad to know I share birthdays with such a sweet woman.

And we're not allowed to have pets in our townhouse. =( Of course to us, Nola is way more than a pet but my landlady doesn't see it that way.

Deb said...

Helen is a dear and special neighbor and we know she is going through the toughest time of her life....as is Dr. We are thankfulf she is a nurse and she is strong person.... and we are praying, praying, praying for her and for Dr. Dale. We love them both for the extraordinary and faithful lives they have led.

Deb said...

Oh...forgot to say...I love this pic of Helen ....it really is soooo Helen.