IT'S NOT EASY BEING A SOUTHERN BELLE-EVEN AFTER YEARS OF PRACTICE!













Sunday, September 21, 2008

GOLDEN TREASURE

God has seen fit to put "Golden Treasure" into our lives in many various forms. Some of this treasure comes to us as if God himself dropped it into our lives while we sat by totally unsuspecting of just how he was blessing us. Not until we begin to lose the treasure, do we see how truly precious a gift was placed in our midst. As that treasure slowly slips from our fingers, we grasp with a clinched grip-only to find God slowly and steadily taking his treasure back into His Treasure Trove. I cling to the Hope that He has placed in my life of wiping all my tears and soothing my hole filled soul.

One of the most wonderful treasures God ever dropped into my life was Dale & Helen Boersma. I did not understand at the time what they would come to mean to me and how their God seeking lives would forever impact me. God slipped them into my life, almost without my awareness, and certainly with no thought on my part of their eternal consequences on my relationship with my Father. I have never seen two people better loved by an entire community. They are totally accepting of each and everyone of us with no hesitancy to love us all. A remarkable family with the reflection of God's presence in their lives shining to all that stop to observe. They show us all what we could be-if we allow Him to sit at the Head of our Household.

During the past few years, I have watched these friends and observed a living reflection of God's Saints upon this Earth. I have learned through them that while we are not perfect, yet does He love us. He pulls us to Him when we seek to follow Him. They have shown me the reflection of a life time of seeking The Master's favor and the Godly results in their lives of that quest.

Dale is in the final stages of a long and agonizing illness, ALS. There are no words to tell you the pain of watching our dear friend slowly, but surely loose the use of each and every voluntary muscle in his body. This insidious disease is claiming Dale's earthly body as surely as the sun rises each and every morning. We all are totally incapable of stopping the daily march of the disease and feel caught in a tug of war that is slowly, but surely pulling us over the line.

While grieving for my dear friends, I am thankful for each and every lesson they have taught me over the past few years. The most important lesson that I have learned from them is probably being taught-right now-as I watch them through this struggle. I have seen a man's wife, his son and daughter-in-law totally immerse themselves into his care. Twenty four hours a day-seven days a week care-unending-requiring each and every moment of the day-it has been unbelievable to see their dedication to their ministrations to Dale. Helen holds to Dale with the tenaciousness of a Mother Tiger to her cub-refusing to allow it to be pulled from her grip.

A golden treasure was given me by God. A treasure filled with wisdom, love, laughter, fellowship, and now tears. I Thank God for sending me this treasure and ask Him to continue to bless me with the lessons they are teaching me. God is ever good and though he does promise us peace and joy-it does not come with a promise of no tears or sorrow. My prayer is that He will hold us all close as we walk this path and continue to fill our void with our only source of comfort-Him.

5 comments:

Ann Miller said...

i am so sorry. i can't imagine what mrs. boersma must be going thru...the one she loves slipping away before her eyes. how blessed you are to recognize the goodness, while feeling the sadness. the way you describe them is how i remember their daughter, joanna, being. so kind, unassuming, completely accepting. it starts at the top...

Anonymous said...

Oh Lora you have ministered way beyond anything I could ever imagine. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kind words and deeds done that only God knows all you have done. i thank you also for your praise of our family- God is the one who works and we have tried to be obedient- but with clay feet. I say turn your eyes to Jesus it is in his strength we go on and know that we are in his plan. One day we will be privy to that vast plan woven so perfectly to make a beautiful tapestry of eternity. again thank you for your sweet sweet words that bring comfort to us during these hard days.

Deb said...

I truly believe the Lord placed Jim and I...wayward Yankees.... on Dogwood so He could minister to us using His servants, the Boersmas. Yes, I understand your feelings totally and it shows me God's love for Jim and I. It would be impossible to repay all the kindness they have shown to Jim, Josh and I.

the Jennings secede from the South said...

Thank the Lord that our hope isn't in this world!

Unknown said...

Thank you, Lora. I just finished class and decided to read your blog. What kind words you have about our family. I never would have imagined that we would be going through this. It is through friends like you that are daily lifting our family up in prayer that we are able to go on these days. Thanks for your constant care for Mom and Dad this past year. The Lord truly is good to us.
Love you, Joanna